ZBOG VELIKIH GRUDI MALTRETIRALI JE UČENICI I NASTAVNICI Voditeljica otkrila: 'Kažnjavali su me, vrijeđali, dovodili moj moral u pitanje, imala sam 14'

Voditeljica, bivša reality zvijezda i DJ, Ashley James, otkrila je da je zbog velikih grudi imala problema u djetinjstvu, i to ne samo zbog neugodnih vršnjaka, već su je i nastavnici kažnjavali zbog toga. Britanka je priznala da se jednom zbog svog impresivnog poprsja veličine 80H našla u problemima nakon što je zagrlila vlastitog brata.

- Završila sam u kazni nakon nastave jer sam pred školom zagrlila brata. Učitelji su me pitali bi li itko u gradu znao da mi je to brat i što bi rekli da vide plavušu s golemim grudima kako grli dječaka pred školom. Apsolutno uvijek je moja moralnost dovođena u pitanje, to su radili čak i nastavnici. Ponašali su se prema meni kao da sam sumnjivog morala samo zato što sam imala velike grudi. Uvijek su me posramljivali, uvijek sam se osjećala poniženom - otkrila je Ashley.

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There's 7.7 billion people in the world and you're waiting for that one person to text you back? This is for anyone who needs to read this today... If they're into you, they'll show it. No games or excuses. Write down all the things you love about yourself, and remind yourself that someone would be lucky to have you. If they don't see it, someone else will. In the meantime, being single ain't so bad, I promise, just put that same energy into yourself and your friendships.For everyone that keeps asking me to remind them of my book recommendations: The Unexpected Joy of Being Single - Catherine Gray What a time to be Alone - @theslumflower Essays in Love - Alain de Botton How do you like me now? - Holly Bourne Psychopath Free. Lingerie by my favourite @honeybirdette (gifted) #singlelife #noretouching

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32-godišnjakinja je pohađala privatnu školu Sedbergh u Cumbriji u Engleskoj koju su roditelji plaćali 12.000 funti (oko 100.000 kuna) godišnje. Nažalost, tako velike grudi u 14-oj za nju su značile zločeste komentare, neumjesne šale i zadirkivanja kolega.

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Happiest in the sun eating pizza. Regarding my last post, I've had so much fun at Coachella! I love dressing up, the setting and weather are perfection, and I absolutely adore the music. Ariana brought out N Sync, P Diddy, and Nicki Minaj, Zedd brought out Katy Perry and Lizzo was my favourite performance of all yesterday! I've had SO much fun, however there's just a LOT more queueing and traffic this year and lots of people pretending to have fun. It felt a bit different to other years. Will I come back next year? Lol, probably. But given that it's not on my doorstep, I wonder if there's other cool festivals to discover in different parts of the world instead? Like, what's Australia or South Africa saying? Or somewhere in South America?Adore this outfit, I've tagged the brands and it's all gifted. Styled by @aoifeodohertystylist #coachella2019 #coachella #festivalstyle #girlswhotravel

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- Dečki su mi prilazili i vrijeđali me, govorili mi gadosti. A nastavnici, umjesto da ih opomenu i daju im do znanja da je to ponašanje neprihvatljivo, govorili su mi da se moram drugačije oblačiti. Sve moje prijateljice su smjele u školu u istoj odjeći, samo ja nisam smjela. Za 14-godišnjakinju to je bilo doista zbunjujuće i nije mi bilo jasno zašto se ja ne mogu odijevati poput njih. Puno prije nego što sam postala seksualno aktivna, nastavnici su se prema meni ponašali kao da jesam i to mi je danas potpuno suludo. Kad sad gledam na sve to, kažnjavali su me zbog mog tijela - priznala je Ashley.

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Na koncu je to školsko maltretiranje toliko utjecalo na nju da se namjerno počela poružnjivati samo da bi se uklopila.

- Shvatila sam da moram početi pokrivati tijelo potpuno i ne smijem se šminkati ako želim da me shvate ozbiljno. Čak sam nosila naočale za vid iako mi nisu trebale. Pa zar nije to smiješno? A sve samo zato što sam sve moguće načine smišljala da me shvate ozbiljno - dodala je.

S vremenom i preseljenjem u London Ashley je stekla potrebno samopouzdanje.

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Wild thang. On second thoughts, there are worse places to be stranded. The good news is, my bag was handed in with all the contents, the bad news is I'd already changed my locks and cancelled my passport. Still no emergency passport, but at least my faith in humanity is restored. Thank you lovely @elizabethhurley1 for sending me this wonderful bikini. I'm always such a big fan of her @elizabethhurleybeach bikini styles, and personally find triangle bikinis the most flattering on my shape. You can use the strings to keep everything in place. #ibiza #noretouching [swimwear gifted]

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